Life seems more complex now than ever, don’t you think!
Why is it that we still feel so isolated in a time that the world is so advanced, we tend to shy away from the world ever so often. Taking shelter in our rooms just to over submerge ourselves with work, to make the days seem effortless and inexistent. It seems that any free time we are granted is wasted by escaping reality to stare at a square on the wall. Even when we are presented the opportunity to go out to social events, we tend to sit down and give our full attention towards our cell phones for the entire sitting! Living a so called virtual reality opposed to enjoying each and every moment in the company of our loved ones.
Did we simply just miss the mark on this one or have we just adapted so well towards a continuous routine of emotionless happiness. We have so many choices now than ever before, that we tend to become self-hypnotized and continually agonize ourselves over analyzing everything, instead of accepting what we have and being grateful for it!
Our children go to school, just to notice that other children have better things than they do, as a result they learn jealousy, “why do they have that and we don’t”. Others start participating in the art of approval seeking and egotistic behaviors. Bullying others trying to supplement a false sense of superiority and acceptance. Measuring up to a social norm that is consistently being fed to them via a negatively influenced misconception of empowerment. We pay less attention to our families and children, caught up in the rat race we call society. Living up to false standards of happiness and achieving wealth. We become so focused and develop a so called tunnel vision towards achieving our goals, that we lose sight on the basic necessities of life… Love.
We tend to complain when our children start their mischief behavior. Mixing with wrong crowds as a direct result of our negligence, a desperate cry for help in hope to acquire our attention and approval. We continue to expose the world of illusion onto them, being the television or social media in hope that it will keep them occupied until we complete our days’ work, which never seems to end. They learn directly from this world of illusion, accepting all the negative behaviors exposed towards them tailored for entertainment, opposed to real life lessons and experiences. And who can blame them, how are they to know the difference!
Instead of us embracing our children, to teach them lessons of the past, right from wrong, have them contribute to the household and work together. We substitute our ever so limited schedules and leave it up to the world of entertainment to mold their minds and life lessons that will carry them throughout their entire lives! A crucial learning cycle we have all gone through!
Our marriages start to fall apart, due to a lack of communication, affection and quality time. Have we really forgotten to communicate, or have we just chosen the easiest route of escape in this exact moment of time.
We continue to hold on to all the little things and let them build up, simply because it would take too much time explaining, not to mention the predicament we would be left dealing with. But Little by little they fill to the brim, until we cannot contain them no more. And like a disease it starts to spreads and infects our perception on the other person. We forget to show our gratitude towards our significant others, and express how we truly feel towards them. We become so distant and cold towards emotions, believing that they are nothing more than a liability and serve no purpose within the world we are now living in. Eventually we adapt a “me against the world” attitude, which will eventually leave us lonely and questioning our ways in time to come! Always leaving the important things till tomorrow, forgetting that tomorrow never comes. However in time these egotistic behaviors eventually take the throne of our perception that mold our realities and suppress any behaviors that threaten its position.
We revert to our cell phones for a quick dopamine fix, with any spare time we get. Just to escape from reality, but even that world is over rated. Children seeking acceptance and validation through social media platforms, continuously checking for likes and followers trying to fit into a world that has been off the rails from the very beginning. No wonder depression has inclined dramatically over the past decade! We have all become addicted, slaves of our egos.
Our children take favor towards idols presented on the screen, and story lines that has been written entitled to trigger certain emotions that leaves us intrigued and wanting more. That we choose to accept this over annualized plot as real life, and learn these so called “life lessons” from the screen of illusion until we subconsciously reinforce the truth, and as a result those are the emotions we feed off!
We shy away from the world, when it becomes too hard and confusing, escaping reality in hope that it will all be forgotten. However in time, this will just reinforce the satisfaction of running away in a time of need. What lessons are we teaching the young, we must never forget, that we are the role models of the future!
We have been submerged within this reality of social validation from the second we are born, and many of us fear to question the norm, as we may be criticized over it! We as humans fall victim ever so often to what is expected of us, but can I ask, what is normal?
That normal is a common belief a specific social circle share, it reinforces your connection towards the pack! Many of us don’t even question the behaviors we adapt on a social network. That we suppress our statements and leave our voices un heard, in fear that we will be criticized or labelled weird or even delusional. But are you the one that is delusional or is it the society we are living in! That what is normal to you is not what is normal for me, and it is extremely visible throughout world cultures and traditions.
What we must remember is, what are the reasons that are driving us to achieve our greatness within the first place? Is it to provide a better future for your family, or to be financially independent? Is it for love and acceptance, or is it for happiness! We should always revisit our motivations and justify our commitments. Some of us are too so focused on achieving our goals that we tend to make the very thing we wanted to strengthen worse. It is always a good reminder to revisit our initial motives and make sure we are still on track, that it is so easy to lose sight of them.
A practice that serves me wonders is to keep a reminder close by, if it’s a picture of your family on your desk at work to remind you that you may be working too much. It will serve as a gentle reminder that it may be time to go home and spend some quality time with the family that is well over due. If your goal is it to be financially free then it may serve you wonders to spend a weekend treating yourself to an enjoyable experience. It may just reinforce a stronger desire of motivation within you, and further remind you why you are doing all this in the first place.
Also make sure you keeping on track with your health, ever so often, life becomes so hectic, we forget about ourselves. Because at the end of the day, what are all the riches in the world worth, if we can’t enjoy them!
Make sure to spend your time wisely and in the company of the people that matter the most, doing the things you love. Because after all life is not forever, hence why we should make the most of it every single moment we have! It’s a privilege to live let’s all embrace our gift, one moment at a time.
That life is amazing, but don’t let it catch you by surprise at the finish line.
Please feel free to leave your comment, I wish you all a wonderful day.
Until next time, Take Care for Now!
Throughout history millions have undertaken their own personal endeavors of self-realization, and even after three million years of existence the human makeup is something that still remains a complete mystery.
This phenomenon of self-discovery has taken form in many trails from personal journeys, religion to science and philosophy. And still, we haven’t even started to scratch the surface of understanding. If we only knew what powers we actually possessed, and how to properly use them, one could only imagine Endless opportunities that are instantly presented.
The Human race possesses the world most elite technologies and systems within its creation. It has been witnessed throughout evolution, that the human race continuously becomes more aware and advanced. Adapting and cultivating such innovation to suit an ever changing world, with the exact same resources our ancestors had. We already possess everything we need, within!
Ancient scriptures throughout the world describe of the enlightenment many have experienced. The possibilities and the flaws it can bring, due to an abundant or limited understanding. But like all divine understandings and power, when in the wrong hands of knowing, can be catastrophic far beyond measure! Let’s face it, it’s not like we were given an instruction manual on how to be human!
Many individuals have expressed their struggles towards anxiety to me, seeking advice and guidance towards the matter. Anxiety affects 1 in 13 humans worldwide. It is a common experience, so please do not feel as if you are any different because of it. I personally believe that anxiety is created due to a limiting understanding of our internal functions and human instincts.
See all humans are created with a default state of survival. A default state that is naturally programed within us upon birth. This is not learnt, this is our creation! Without thought, we are born too subconsciously see, breathe, and have our hearts beat. Our body’s respond subconsciously to all we need and all that is required to survive.
We are programed with subconscious reminders of discomfort that remind us to take action. When we experience a feeling of hunger, we know we need food. When we experience thirst, we know we are dehydrated and when we become tired, we know we need sleep and rest etc. As for anxiety, we experience a discomfort, reminding us there is a misalignment somewhere within.
Humans are the complete package, with no flaws. The human race is so unique that it can even self-heal itself. When one get cut or weakens a muscle, our bodies subconsciously heal themselves. This is how advance we all are, mind-blowing right! However with so many elements and internal systems, it is easy to see how one can become confused and even mislead.
We tend to change our entire understanding and practices so easily, via mere misunderstandings! A minor disconnect can send our worlds down a spiral of confusion and misalignment. A minor disconnect from our default state that is!
Anxiety is a great example, generalized by a limited understanding and association to the human survival system – The fight or flight response.
The fight or flight response is a part of our survival system, our human instincts. A default state within our makeup. This magnificent system, is here to support us in a time of danger.
The fight or flight response is activated subconsciously, when we are exposed to a life threatening situation, or when our lives are in danger. When this response is activated, the brain sends out an SOS message. Which activates our sympathetic nervous system (The stress system) and releases a range of hormones and neurochemicals, adrenaline being one of them. The body simply goes into survival mode.
The body actively resynchronizes the amount of energy being displaced to other systems within our bodies that may not be of assistance in a time of threat. It disengages many systems that won’t be required on a short term basis, such as the digestion system and redirects the energy towards more promising survival systems, such as increasing the amount of blood flow being transited throughout our body’s and muscles. This is all to get us ready to either fight or flight (Flee)
Our bodies are made to survive. All our natural internal systems and elements are made to support our survival, not to sabotage it!
I like to understand the fight or flight response in a simpler and less scientific way. I feel that the fight or flight response is engaged, due an unexpected surge of energy trying to be processed all at once. An unexpected shock to the body, via an event that was not intended. This then causes our brain to go into an overdrive, which causes us to overheat. Hence why our hearts start to rise, palm sweat and all that fun stuff. That when we experience an intense and unexpected situation, it causes an overload of emotions and thoughts to be processed at the same time. And before you can think of a solution to decipher the situation, we go into a panic mode. It’s basically a surge of power getting sent to the brain, and because it cannot process it all at once it reverts such a response. A response of survival, to fight or flee the situation.
However with that said, the fight or flight response can be activated prematurely. We can short circuit this response, by an over load of negative thoughts and intense emotions. A false belief that is reinforced internally, having us believe it is real. Generally when we make false assumptions to believe our lives are in danger. “Huston we have a problem, Mayday, Mayday initiate the Fight or Flight!”
There is so much energy trying to be processed at one time, that our circuit gives up and crash. We become so invested within the feelings of fear and future projection, which cause us to hone in on all those negative feelings, to further reinforce this illusion of pain and imprisonment.
We continue to focus on all the elements of discomfort within us such as; loss of breathe, overdrive of adrenaline, constriction in the throat region, etc. And because we focus on it so intensely, we feel the full affects even if there not present. We self-manifest these feelings within to subconsciously activate its responses.
We tend to stop exercising, distance ourselves from loved ones, subconsciously tense the body, avoid sleeping and even stop eating. All these elements then start to take a spiraling effect.
We focus so much on the effects, we lose sight of the cause. And many of us start to adjust our lives in fear of the next episode, further reinforcing its truth. However when we obsess over the affects, instead of the cause, we are just adding to this viscous cycle, that all revert their own negative reactions!
Let’s break a range symptom down and see the underlying causes, and how they are all interweaved together!
Firstly it is important to always remember that all commands are initiated through the brain, and influenced by thought. Initially, one becomes influenced by a train of negative thoughts and amplified emotions attached towards them. Generally via a horrible experience that reverted the fight or flight response previously. We short circuit a response in the brain.
We attach many senses towards the negative thoughts, and divert all our focus towards our discomfort until the feelings become present. Now the slightest feeling, is amplified due to our intense focus.
This fear spirals our hearts to beat, and our adrenaline to activate. Now we have an intense feeling we are trying to decipher within our minds. We start to take short gasps of air, adding to the discomfort, caused by our internal fear and now our bodies are in overdrive.
Further, as we are not eating correctly, the body try’s to scavenge all the excess energy remaining within this deficiency we have caused, in order to deal with this disconnect. However our bodies are so tired due to a lack of sleep, and all the previous energy we have invested in worrying and tensing our bodies throughout the day, which it goes into a state of shock and panic, activating such a response. Well done, you have now manipulated your brain in believing you are in a life threatening situation.
See when one stops eating, due to a false belief of chocking, they are causing a deficiency of nutrients and energy throughout the body. And without food, how the body is expected to function properly and feel healthy. Further add a lack of sleep and weary muscles caused from an ongoing internal strain to the muscles. And as if that wasn’t enough, continue to add the discomfort of feeling tired and worn down caused from a lack of sleep. See how the body is now feeding from a feast of negativity and fear, to activate the fight or flight!
It is most important to understand that our internal make-up is made for survival. For one to regain control and focus of their thoughts and emotion is the key. Our internal system will do the rest, to self-heal itself. Remember that all commands are initiated through the brain and influenced upon your thoughts and emotions.
For one to list the process and understand the steps that are initiated and influenced is crucial, it will set you free.
A very common teaching to relieve anxiety, is for one to become present and pay attention to their breathing. As our bodies are processing so many thoughts and emotions at once, it causes our whole system is running in overdrive, we need to bring it down to optimum working level, and redirect our focus onto something else. The rest will take care of itself. Understand that we are in no harm, and that it’s caused by a daydream of false beliefs. Do not invest within the feelings, instead focus on the cause to understand its illusion.
I have come to find, that the easiest way to escape from the illusion of anxiety, is to realign ones focus.
Focus is the kryptonite, to anxiety!
That our current environment and situations shape us, we become all that we are exposed to. Hence why when one feels as though their living within a hell, the only reassurance they are receiving from the world is negative. Understand that your entire focus is on this misalignment, so we must refocus our energy on our hearts desires and positivity.
If that is falling in love, deciding to move into foreign territories, getting a new job, etc. Find something you love to do or start something new that will take your focus away from the darkness and into the light.
When we redirect our focus to a situation that will impact us and offered more of an emotional and physical impact toward that we are currently focusing on. It will dilute the effect of anxiety. See if I put you in a plane and made you skydive, your entire focus will be in the experience of free falling, it is a completely new experience. It impacts you on a direct emotional level yet physical level, and as we know that which affects us and uses more senses is where our focus goes. And if you focus on positivity, that is what will grow.
Don’t give value to the false beliefs that you are different or ill, believe that your body will self-heal itself as it was created to do. Surrender to the thoughts and false beliefs and know that they cannot harm you. As one dreams to wake up safe and normal, once we realize we are living in a self-manifested day dream, we too will wake up safe and normal.
I hope I have given you more insight towards this topic, and thank you all for reaching out. Please feel free to leave your comments, Stay safe and always well.
Until Next Time, Take Care.
We are no stranger when it comes to decision making, by now one would think that we would have no problem at all in its participation…. Pfft, yea right! The thought of change alone, sends the shiver of uncertainty throughout our entire body. We are dealing with the unknown, and it’s only natural we feel this way.
Decisions can really take their toll, shattering our perception into thousands of pieces. Dragging us from left to right, only to leave one questioning the internal truths that were once believed. It is nothing more than an emotional rollercoaster.
One minute we are as confident as can be, the next we’re so confused we pinch ourselves in hope we will wake up from the nightmare we have indulged ourselves within.
But why do we put ourselves through such torture, such an insanity that takes us to the breaking point, each and every time!
Many times we already know the decision we would make, even before we have been dealt the stack. However when the opportunities eventually presents themselves, we instantly become an emotional train wreck, questioning each and every possibility known to man.
We have all come to meet, those individuals that don’t seem to threat a sweat when it comes to decision making. Those individuals that seem so confident within each dilemma that one has to only ask once, and within seconds their mind is made and set.
So why is this? How can they be so confident with the unknown, and how can we all learn to do this as well?
It’s quite simple really, these individuals acknowledge and understand a few basic principles. Firstly they have consciously decided their path in life, and have aligned their focus in achieve them. They have decided where they’re going and how they plan to get there. They Annelize the potential in each decision and decide which choice better suits and aligns with their motives. They understand that time is a virtual, that the more we swim within the oceans of uncertainty, the more we will be influenced and start second guessing our already knowing judgement.
Generally our first response to a decision at hand, is the true analysis of our hearts desires. The more we are consumed within the art of second guessing, the quicker our egos are self-invited to voice their concerns, and false beliefs to the discussions that take place within ourselves.
Some of us face the difficulty associated within even the smallest of decisions. This is due to the underline reason that we are simply taking each day as it comes. We either have no overarching destination or a somewhat idea, that we have not committed one hundred percent towards. We are still questioning where we wish to start and complete our journeys. We are simply driving down the road of uncertainty, waiting for the gas to run out, only take action when needed. No wonder decisions amplify the feeling of fear and uncertainty within us all.
With that said, decision making is not always easy. Especially when we are faced with those Major life decisions. Be relationships, deciding to start a family, commencing a new life in foreign territories, new career paths, etc. Which all present the potential to have a server impact in our waking lives. We tend to become insecure and question the thing we already know. We even tend to change our perception within the world around us, due to the emotional state we experience from it.
However decisions only become complex when they are influenced by one or more of the following categories;
- Fear- (fear of failure, uncertainty, not being adequate, lack of confidence or new experiences)
- Options that present similar or minor differences to each other
- And decisions that impact others and not in alignment with one another.
That life is forever changing, we know this. Within any moment the potential of change is evident and highly likely. We tend to lose sight of this so very often.
We become so comfortable within our routines that we forget we are only living within a chapter in our lives, and the pages are constantly turning. That nothing is forever, change is always around the corner.
When we remember this, we can start to dilute the patterns of thought, and future projection. That nothing is forever and provide us a little assurance to help make our decisions at hand.
That change is scary, but all new situations bring along new experiences. Never good and never bad, we choose to interoperate them as we like.
However, when we start to separate all the elements we can then choose to see it for what it is. I have come to find, that there are generally two major influences that shape all decision making.
Logic and Emotion.
Logic serves us wonders, however I find logic to speak an unknown language when it comes to matters of the heart and happiness. This is due to the underlined reason, that logic has a close relationship with our egos. And are generally influenced by fear.
Logic dictates situations upon past experiences, unknown future projections and internal understanding of who we are, and what is expected of us. It takes many factors into account, “how will I be judged by others, how will this affect my financial situation, and the general ‘WHAT IF” situations”
That logic serves its purpose, and can provide us with that little boost of confidence when needed, but I am here to say that logic, is only reassuring a predictable assumption in an ever changing world. So tell me, what is the logic in that that!
Let me repeat that again, Logic only reassures a predictable assumption, in an ever changing world!
Realise that we have to distance ourselves from the emotion attached to the choices at hand. Acknowledge that the more we indulge within the senses, the quicker we dilute all the smaller elements involved, which also hold a significance within our choices. They generally go unnoticed and ignored.
Understand that emotion is all generated, by our underline thoughts of the situation. We think of each and every scenario that could happen, based on a positive or negative frame of mind. Which in turn primes our internal state within the emotions we feel. And as you are aware, the most dominant feeling present at the time, usually amplifies the same response in all related situations. We project the world, from our internal emotions present, within the moment of time were living.
When others will be impacted, within our decisions, such as a relationship decision’s, deciding to start a family, or even creating a joint venture in business, etc. It is most important that you communicate with all parties involved. Be open and put all the cards on the table, express yourself and all your concerns. Table everything!
Remember that every decision you make, you must invest within it one hundred at ten percent. If you start questioning yourself, it is wise to revisit the thought patterns influencing your emotional state. Strip it away again and understand the logic, and emotions behind them. Understand which category your concern fit within. This will give you a more in-depth understanding to the internal dilemmas present within, then make a conscious decision you are willing to support. To give your word and commit to your decision is required. Because without a strong and solid foundation, even the tallest buildings will collapse in the event of a minor mishap.
Talking with others can be great to get another perspective on the situations, as their recommendations are not fuelled by your emotions. When one is not in direct affect to the decision at hand, they can interoperate the situation from a non-emotional state. However remember it will be interoperated within their life experiences and understanding. They only serve as an insight from another point of view. Take the time to hear their advice, as they may have some value that can be given towards the situations. However know that it is ultimately your decision to make and that you will be you left playing the card after it is drawn.
Remember that the effort we put into each and every situation will dictate our results! Why do we fear the unknown! Is it because we have a low self-esteem and lack of confidence within our potential we possess. That we know those who seek and practice in the art of persistence, will always find a way. There is no way we can lose if we are actively trying. Know your skill and practice its methods to success.
That life is forever changing, challenges are presented daily. Do we choose to raise to the challenge ahead or ignore them, it’s all up to us how we project it!
Life gives out what we put in, this is what we should understand. That if we always try and seek there will be a door in the mist. The question is, how prepared are you to prove your conscious wrong! That there is no right or wrong decision, there are only different opportunities at hand. We prime our responses before we are even dealt with the outcomes. We interoperate the situations prior to experiencing the true representation and opportunity’s at hand.
When we surrender to all the influences and see the decisions for what they are, it makes it easier to comprehend, remember it is just another chapter we choose to begin.
So always believe in yourself, there is only opportunity and new experiences to be gained.
I wish you all a world of happiness and best of luck in all your life changing decisions.Please feel free to leave your comments, Take care for now.
There are times in our lives that are wondrous and times of disappointment. That life is like a battle of tides, highs and lows. It is only when we start to acknowledge the discomfort, do we then become sea sick.
When times get me down, I always reflect on the teaching of free will. See our creator has blessed us all with this divine gift of free will. A gift for us all to choose and act upon any circumstance without distrains, and only truly questionable by us.
That you and I have both received this divine gift, all for our own use and judgement. Second to none, and nobody else in this world has the right to question it!
However there are times in our lives that creep up on us to flip the blanket of comfort from beneath our feet, causing us to fall head first. Usually a time of emotional confession and an overdrive of thought patterns. A time we are left questioning ourselves and the individuals we are, due to a false or over annualized representation, and perception from external eyes.
We are left believing the harsh words and rationalized content expressed about us, during a highly confusing and negatively fuelled situation we are dealt with from the outside world. A false and bias belief that affects us on an emotional level, amplifying the leverage of negative emotions, manipulating our state and then justifying its truth via the bombardons of energy we attach to these false belief systems.
We all have those individuals that we have emotionally connected ourselves to and interpreted them as our own. Those we consistently revolve our lives around, to the point we have infused them within our own personal journeys. Which is not a bad thing as such, but a lot of times we can become delusional and create a false perception of the circumstances and feelings at hand. Even though we consciously know that these certain individual serve us no good, we continue to manipulate these false beliefs and only take the good out of it, Ignoring the negativity even when the scales have tipped 10 to 1.
I have many individuals that written into me expressing their heartache towards loved ones distancing away, to only leave us with such a regret and false beliefs, that we are the solitary cause of their own personal dilemmas.
This is where this teaching of free will is so powerful to understand. See when these significant individuals make the decision to distance themselves, they actively choose to do it for themselves. They have made a conscious decision, not to invest anymore of their time within trying to amend and secure the relationships at hand. This is something we do not have the right to control nor change. This is their free will in action.
But to remember, that we must always express ourselves and put our hearts on the line, is all that we can do within these moments. To know that the choice is there for them to consider and make, Nice and Clear. It’s simply out of our hands.
See, for one to truly express their internal feelings, to the point that they are satisfied with their efforts, sets us free and enables us to let go of the burning coal of regret and anger that will be hold deep within us. We must stay true to ourselves.
A teaching I have incorporated, throughout my path in life and that truly holds a special meaning to me, as I hope that all the amazing individuals who are reading can also find its significance within it, is;
Don’t waste your time explaining yourself to others, because at the end of the day, you are the only one left explaining yourself to YOU!
Express yourself, within the situation, but do not go on explaining yourself for your actions as you are the only one at fault, and the one left to pick up the pieces.
Understand that we all play apart in a partnership, this is why communication is so important. But it always takes two individuals, to make it work, Not just one.
See when we embrace this saying, we can really eliminate all future regrets “I could have done this or I could have said that” See a regret is only created when we are not satisfied with our efforts.
Let me repeat this again, Regret Is Only Created When One Is Not Satisfied With Their Efforts.
To know we could have done or said more, will leave us explaining the situation and our action to no one but ourselves in time to come. Remember to express yourself fully, and you will be sure to release the burden of any future regrets.
Acknowledge that living unhappily and continue to do so, is not always healthy for us. Like a disease it will continue to consume us the more we hold onto it.
Keep in mind that, to try and change a person or their decision based on your own personal judgement, is an act of selfishness. Would we like it if somebody took our free will away from us and imprisoned us in a world of control! To think we are here, not for our own preference but for the sorrow of another, is not right and it will eventually take its toll on us in the future.
We are all great, we can do anything we set our minds to, that our life is a magical gift and we shouldn’t waste a minute of it in denial nor regret. After all our time on this earth is not forever, Hence why we should embrace each and every moment of it.
That the more we focus on the problems, the more we will start to see flaws, even if they are not there.
As humans, we tend to look for the missing pieces in others, not understanding that we have to find them within ourselves. That people only guide us to the place where we can discover it from within, not the other way around.
It is only natural we reflect the cause of such a situation on us, when really everyone lives there own experiences from within their own beliefs.
Don’t corrupt your self-image from others infected thoughts or interpretation of you. They do not have that right, yet don’t hold the power to do so.
We don’t have to dilute our own self morals for other because they are misled or have a limited understanding. We keep our stance and keep the posture of goodness within us.
Know that you create your own love within yourself. We are all truly amazing people and we all obtain that special spark of uniqueness deep within.
If someone is an honest friend or holds a significance to us, they will always be back. This is not our burden to keep, it is a burning coal that they must learn to release.
So remember to always express yourself and your intentions, This is important.
To always show others how we feel. But most importantly, do not lose sight of the fact that if we consistently keep on persuade someone to forgive us, is not the honest approach either. It is something they should feel and understand the value within. That’s how we can filter the true honest individuals within our lives, and let the others fly free. We could have 100 friends, but remember the ones that come back are the golden eggs worth hatching.
We all deserve the best in our existence because were all amazing. I wish you a world of happiness and love.
Please feel free to leave your comments.
Until next time, Take care.